I know this sounds bad of me, but my new
boyfriend has man-breasts. I saw them for the first time last
night. I can't help it. They are such a turn off. He's
in pretty good shape now, but it's obvious he used to be obese. I
have no problem with people who are overweight, but this is really
unattractive. He has no plans for surgery to repair them
If he's a new boyfriend, you have a
chance to escape. Run, ShallowGirl, Run! He has plenty of
self-esteem, considering he's not interested in plastic surgery.
He doesn't need someone who's not willing to look past minor
flaws. We're pretty sure you have a few yourself.
Let this man get on with finding
someone who will accept him for the strong and determined human being he
is. It takes courage and strength to lose weight and get out